Whistlin’ Joe
My father, Elmer Isaac Ashton born in Woodruff, Utah on May 14,1907 to George and Idella (Eastman) Ashton. He, the fifth child in a family of seven, four girls and three boys. In his lifetime he was a sheepherder, cowboy, coal miner, farmer, and logger. More importantly, a husband, father, grandfather and a friend to all.
He was a happy little boy and learned to whistle at a young age. His two uncles, Rawl and Marsh Eastman, nicknamed him “Whistlin’ Joe”. His name became Joe Ashton and he signed Elmer only on legal documents. Rawl and Marsh looked out for him and were more father figures, as his own father was sometimes mean to him. He spoke highly of his mother and was devastated by her death when he was twelve. She had been injured in a buggy accident and spent the last few years of her life in a wheelchair. Even when in the wheelchair, she continued her job clerking at a small grocery store. Daddy told the story, of how she could add up the bill in her head, faster than an adding machine, seldom making a mistake.
At the age of ten Daddy took a summer job herding sheep, to help support the family. He talked little about his childhood but I can imagine him trying to be brave, when inside he was a scared little boy. Terrified at night with only a dog for company, he lay in the bunk, listening to the howl of coyotes and prayed that all the sheep in his care, would still be alive come the next morning.
He always had fresh lamb at the sheep camp and prepared his own meals, usually a lamb stew or lamb fried, along with potatoes and gravy and biscuits. He not only learned how to care for animals and brave the world alone he also learned the rudiments of cooking. When I was fourteen he patiently taught me how to make gravy. After he had fried the lamb chops he carefully poured out some of the grease, scraped the browned bits off the bottom and edges of the fry pan. Then he had me sprinkle flour into the grease with one hand, while stirring continually with the other. When the flour and grease started to thicken we added milk and kept stirring, adding more milk, until soon we had a fry pan full of delicious milk gravy to cover biscuits, baking in the oven. A few years later as a new bride I didn’t know much about cooking, but I could make milk gravy.
He always had fresh lamb at the sheep camp and prepared his own meals, usually a lamb stew or lamb fried, along with potatoes and gravy and biscuits. He not only learned how to care for animals and brave the world alone he also learned the rudiments of cooking. When I was fourteen he patiently taught me how to make gravy. After he had fried the lamb chops he carefully poured out some of the grease, scraped the browned bits off the bottom and edges of the fry pan. Then he had me sprinkle flour into the grease with one hand, while stirring continually with the other. When the flour and grease started to thicken we added milk and kept stirring, adding more milk, until soon we had a fry pan full of delicious milk gravy to cover biscuits, baking in the oven. A few years later as a new bride I didn’t know much about cooking, but I could make milk gravy.
I have just found this. I am the grandaughter of Ruby Ashton. I have lost contact with most of family. Was always close with aunt Lorene. I have no idea where her two daughters, Shannon and Betty Rose are. My mothers name was Afton.
ReplyDeleteColleen Barnett Taylor
Hi Colleen,
DeleteSounds like you have found the right family. My dad was Elmer ( Joe) Isaac Ashton and he had sisters named Grace, Atha, Lorene and Ruby...Brothers named Ermal and Josh...Since our dad has been dead for 50 years now we also have lost track of most of the extended family...My sister Mona lives in the Salt Lake City area and is active in the Mormon church and works on genealogy so she has info on some of the relatives. I know that Uncle Josh's boys Jerry and Tommy are still in the Utah area but both his daughters Ila Dee and Donna Jean are deceased. I Think most of Aunt Athas kids are gone. Don't know about Uncle Ermals family or Aunt Lorenes or Aunt Grace.
I know Aunt Ruby lived in California...Daddy always talked fondly of her but I only remember meeting her a couple of times...She always sent swimsuits for Mona and I (my name is Idella) when she was working for Cole of California (I think that was the name). We were a couple of country girls and always so excited when the box came in the mail... Are you in California? If you can give me your address I can forward it to my sister Mona and maybe you can get some info from her.
Thanks for commenting on my blog, I have been writing it for almost 2 years now and really enjoy it...Also I'm writing a series of essays about my life growing up in Lake Fork (McCall) Idaho. Hope to publish a small booklet someday for my children and other family members.
Would be nice to visit with you so write back please and we can maybe catch up on some old family news...I'm sending this reply from my blog and also from my email hoping you get one of them...Our email server is changing programs and has been sporadic the last few days. Sincerely, Idella Ashton Allen, PS you can email me at oma@eoni.com